Finalization 6 - A Sissy Sacrifice

One more step

Hi there sweetie. Today we’re going to be talking about something you’re probably already aware of...although maybe not consciously. We’re going to bring it into focus and look at how you can apply it in a way that benefits you the most.

As you’re approaching the end of the course (and looking back, I really think we should have had drinking game where students must down a shot of cum every time we mention “THE END!”) it’s a good time for you to think about something like this to symbolically mark your passage from student to graduate.

It’s no sacrifice…

If you haven’t guessed from the title of the letter, we’re going to be looking at sacrifices.

You’ve already made some sacrifices for your sissification, even if all you’ve been doing is reading the Academy letters. The time you spent reading them is time you could have spent doing any number of other things but at some level inside you a decision was taken to sacrifice the other possibilities.

These kind of sacrifices make up your day to day life, with varying degrees of compulsion (you choose to go to work or to school instead of staying home and playing video games because most of the time, you’re compelled to do so, the opposite choice can have very negative consequences) and they’re also sacrifices that have to be made.

It’s 7pm at night, what are you going to do for the next hour? Exercise? Practice your makeup? Scroll through social media on your phone? In this situation you have to make a choice even if the choice is not to make one and simply laze about. Time will pass and how you allocate it is up to you.

The other kind of sacrifice, the one I want to get you to think about, is one that doesn’t need to be made. There isn’t necessarily any physical benefit to doing so, the sacrifice and the sacrificial act itself are their own rewards, even when they’re purely symbolic.

The sissy sacrifice

You may have seen, or you may have done this yourself, someone posting on the Academy Reddit where they’ve been accepted for the course and to mark the occasion, they’ve thrown away all of their male underwear and it’s panties, panties, panties 24/7 (or hopefully as near as good hygiene will allow) for them from now on.

This is the right idea but in my opinion, it’s done at the wrong time (and I always wonder how long they last with it). It’s something that should be done to mark a big occasion and, although I’m glad that they consider being accepted at the Academy as a big moment for them, it’s something that is more meaningfully done at the end of the course to mark your achievement in graduating.

If any of you reading this did mark your acceptance with something like that, thank you and I hope you stuck with it!

How and what

This does give us one idea of something to sacrifice but it’s only that, one idea. What you decide on is up to you, which is as it should be because what you sacrifice should be something that is meaningful to you.

If I say, “I’ll give up male underwear”, that’s wonderful but if I don’t wear it or wear it very  infrequently then it’s not really meaningful and as a result the value of my sacrifice is much lower.

Be wary of going the other way too, “I’m giving up video games” can be a good idea but it’s too much if they make up a significant proportion of your leisure and/or socializing time. Large, life altering changes can be a very good idea but they’re something that should be approached properly (as we discussed in a previous module) and with the respect they deserve. Not least because suddenly being faced with a large amount of free time can be very overwhelming and increases the chance you’ll slide backwards into what you gave up.

It’s also important that it’s a decision you make. The Academy could tell you what to sacrifice and you would then decide whether to do so or not (and of course, you would all do it because you’re good girls!) but this would miss out on the benefits of the exercise, which is you deciding on something meaningful to you and then deciding to sacrifice it. Breaking the chain by having someone else tell you or decide for you means that you won’t reap the full benefit.

The sacrifice can also be something notional, for example that huge porn folder you’ve acquired, most of which you’ll never watch again, or that huge backlog of books/games/anime etc that you’re going to get to at some point in the future (and getting rid of something like this will have the bonus effect of feeling like a weight has lifted from you).

Once you’ve made the decision you need to think about how you’re going to do it. You should make it an event. You can look into Wiccan or various other occult rituals for ideas (although if you plan on burning a pair of boxer shorts, make sure they’re clean ones!) but the general form would be to get dressed up, say a few words out loud and then have a small ceremony…

...and if this makes you think of something like a wedding or other formal ceremony then well done! There’s a reason the recipe for all of them are broadly the same even if the ingredients differ. Over the decades and centuries we’ve come to understand how to mark significant events whether they be spiritual or mundane, so go with what works.

Allowances

Think about how many diets start out by swearing off X (deserts, sugar, fat, carbs, processed food, meat and so one) and they’re mostly time limited and the person ends up falling off the wagon. Everything’s going well and then one day you think, “hmm, I’d like a piece of cake, but I can’t because I’m on my diet” and you go about your day feeling good about yourself.

A couple of days later, the same voice is back but a little stronger and this time it says, “are you really never going to eat cake again for the rest of your life?” but you stay strong.

This repeats until eventually you feel the weight of your whole cakeless future in front of you, realise that you probably can’t do without cake forever, so just one piece now and then is ok. One piece a week becomes two and then three and before you know it you’re back where you started!

This isn’t to try and persuade you to sacrifice cake but to let you know that if you give up male underwear, it’s ok to keep a pair in a drawer somewhere in case you need one for a doctor’s appointment or something or even if it’s just comforting for you to know they’re there if needed or in case of emergency.

The symbolism works if you give them up for 95% of the time pretty much as well as if you’re 100% successful so don’t fall into the trap of thinking it’s all or nothing! We hope it’s been made clear throughout the course, but if not, I’ll state it clearly here, you’re not a failure if you’re not perfect. Adversity and failure are amazing teachers, all you need to do is accept that you’re a flawed, imperfect individual...just like the rest of us!

Homework

Think about what you can and are willing to sacrifice for your sissification. You can save the sacrifice itself for when you’ve graduated or you can carry it out earlier to mark all of your progress to date.

You can carry out more sacrifices when you hit milestones or achievements that are personal and meaningful to you but like weddings, part of the value of a sacrifice lies in its scarcity. If you’re doing them every week or month then they will start to fade into the background and won’t feel as strong as they otherwise would do.

Part two of your homework is to watch one boy/girl intercourse video every day until you receive your next letter and while you do, you can bounce on a dildo.

I hope you’ve been paying attention to things. I'd hate for the next letter to be an exam and catch you by surprise!