Finalization 10 - The safe porn star
One step beyond
As well as looking at how to widen, deepen and progress your sissification at this level, we’re also going to be taking a closer look at a specific example of something you can do that you might not have thought of.
For level one, this will be a discussion of how you can safely share sexy videos of yourself online 😲.
Why porn?
Oh honey, porn never needs a reason!
Slightly more seriously, if you’ve ever shared photos of yourself with someone online when you’re sex chatting with them and received a compliment (verbal, physical, ejaculatory) in return then you know how affirming it can be to know that someone sees your sissy side and it excites them.
This is natural, sexuality is always a shared act even when it’s solo. What do you think about when you’re bouncing away on a dildo or rubbing yourself into oblivion? A featureless void or is it other people (one or many)?
This is why directly involving other people is a different and much more potent buzz than good old reliable masturbation. As the cliche goes, sex is like pizza...even when it’s bad it’s pretty good!
Hopefully it’s obvious that the step between masturbation and direct, physical interaction is a social one. In real life, this will be making eyes at someone and playing the game of when they catch you, looking away and then glancing back to see if they’re still watching (usually while blushing furiously) or flirting with them, even if it’s not overtly sexual and you’re talking around the obvious point (that you’d like to take this conversation someone a little more intimate, like say a nearby bathroom and...).
When someone responds in the same way, it’s wonderful and you feel good because it lets you know that you’re someone they view in a sexual light and it’s exactly the same buzz as when you’re chatting online. Online makes it easier because 99% of the people in the types of chat rooms you frequent are there for one reason, but this just means you can cut to the chase a lot quicker.
You might have also sent videos online to people you’ve chatted with or even had video calls with them and this adds another level on top of it because you may get videos in return (so you can see him jerking off to you) but also because the more effort you put in, the more praise you will receive.
Porn builds on this even more because now you’re just putting a video out there for anyone to see. I can remember an interview with a porn star where she talked about how, before she got into porn, her boyfriend would invite random guys back to their home to fuck her and he’d make her wear a blindfold when it happened.
This way, whenever she was out buying groceries or going for a run, for all she knew the guy who walked past and leered at her was someone who’d had sex with her and she had no way of knowing and she found this to be an incredible turn on. When you post a porn video online it’s the same thing, anyone can see it and countless guys and girls will be getting off to you and you’ll never know!
Hmmm…
Yes, I know what you’re thinking. “Privacy and protection of my identity is my red line. I’d love to go all out and be the superslut of my dreams but I can’t have anyone close to me finding out.”
Don’t worry sweetie, that’s why this letter is the safe porn star! You have plenty of control over what’s shown and what isn’t and while the thrill you get might not be quite as strong as it would be if you were completely open, once you get a taste of what you can do, you won’t mind at all! It’s like the difference between masturbation and sex, no one gives up on the former even when they’ve experienced the latter.
Safety
How far you go is entirely down to your comfort level and by how unique your body is. Some sissies are fine using a mask (anything between a full face latex “gimp” style one and a simple solitaire mask) while others will feel the need to dial it back further, but try it out first and remember there’s no need to share your test videos. You might be surprised by how much some makeup and a different hairstyle or wig can change your appearance.
It’s pretty easy to pixelate your face in a video but if that’s not enough for you, then just leave it out of the shot completely. There are no rules here saying you must show x or bare y.
Next is your body, concerns here might be if you have noticeable tattoos or marks but these can be dealt with pretty easily with clothes or, if you want to show some skin, body makeup.
When you’re finding out where your comfort level lies, try and look at it with neutral eyes. Obviously, you know it’s you and this can lead you to overestimate how easy it will be for others to identify you. It’s very easy to be over cautious but if you compare your “male” self with your female side the results can be astounding.
Prep and shoot
You can just film and see what happens but you’ll almost always get better results if you put a little thought into what you’re going to do. As a bonus, you get to browse a lot of porn for *inspiration* 😉. Your video can be something as straightforward as watching porn and bouncing on a dildo, rubbing yourself to completion, jerking off a dildo etc, your imagination is your only limit!
Don’t listen to the voice inside your head saying no one will want to watch it. Even if it was true (and trust me, no matter how out there and bizarre your idea may be, there will be plenty of others who find it as arousing as you do if not even hotter) it doesn’t matter because part of the thrill is just putting it out there.
We have talked a little about this before, the only equipment you need is a phone and whatever clothes/toys/makeup you want to use. A cheap tripod can be a huge help, but with a little ingenuity you’ll be able to prop up your phone and hold it in position using books, elastic bands etc.
Do a few test shots to make sure you’re not capturing your face (if you don’t want it in the shot) because there’s nothing worse than ending up with a video you can’t use. If you plan on moving during a shot, it will be a little trickier but not impossible and if something does end up sneaking into a shot that you don’t want to show, then that brings us to our next topic.
The editing suite
Editing videos on your phone used to be a huge pain. I know we should be grateful that in about 20 years we’ve gone from being able to take pictures on them to producing movies but until the software caught up a few years ago, editing on a phone was a nightmare.
While it’s still not perfect, and you may prefer to use a desktop computer if you have one available, your phone is more than capable of the basics.
Watch your video a few times and keep an eye out for anything that you don’t want in there, it’s easy to cut them out and use a wipe to prevent a sudden jump from one part to another. You can also crop the video if you want to trim the edges of the screen, pixelate your face and so on.
If you’re a little more advanced and took multiple shots or scenes (oooh, fancy!), this is where you piece them all together. The more complicated you’ve made things, the longer it will take but this is your work and it’s time well spent to make it look as close to how you imagined it would as possible.
You need to consider the sound as well, there are plenty of licence free music available but if you use a popular song then chances are your video won’t be accepted when you upload it or will get pulled shortly after it launches. No soundtrack is fine as is just your panting, groaning and moaning.
It’s go time
When it’s all done and you’re happy with your masterpiece, all you need to do is share it. The easiest site at the time of writing is xHamster, it’s easy to make an account and then all you need to do is upload your video, set some tags on it and wait for it to be approved.
The first time you do it, you will feel like the biggest slut in the world! You’ve made a porn video and you’re posting it online. Just thinking of all the anonymous people who are going to be watching you bounce on a dildo, say you love sucking cock or whatever you came up with will be a huge turn on and see, you’ve done it all safely and in a way that you’re comfortable with, it’s win/win!
Once it’s been accepted, which in xHamster usually takes 2-3 days, you can sit back and watch the views roll in. You may well be contacted by admirers or other sissies who put out videos and now you’ve found another social outlet as well as somewhere to show off your creative abilities.
Homework
GO AND MAKE PORN! 😂
Don’t worry sissykins, we’re not going to make you. I strongly recommend that you at least try and film something, even if you’re not going to upload it, just for funsies and so you can see what you look like.
As I said, the point of this letter is to give you an idea of something you can do at Level 1 to push yourself a little further without becoming too uncomfortable. Shooting videos of yourself is challenging and fun and it will help you find out things like how to show yourself in the best light and what positions highlight your best features.
If you take the next step and post them on a porn site, then you get to enjoy watching the views counter go up and up (what, 5,000 people have watched me vibing myself to a release?) and even better, how do you think you’ll feel when the comments start to appear? “Hot piece of ass!”, “I’ve cum so many times to this”, “what a slut!” and on and on.
No one will know who you are but everyone watching will know exactly what you are 😉
Good luck!
