Academy 9 - Transformation 3 - Pre Conditioning

I hope you’re getting excited!

You’ll be starting the conditioning exercises for this module very shortly but before you do, we need to have a little chat about the next step. We’ve looked at denial and we’ve looked at chastity so you may be wondering either where else we have to go or imaging any number of weird and wonderful things you’ve heard rumours of and laughed about with your girlfriends at sleepovers.

The good news is that we’re not doing anything crazy but it might be the biggest step you’ve taken and one of the hardest things you do during the course. We want you to let go of your releases.

Letting go

I haven’t lost my mind and I understand how this sounds (take some deep breaths sweetheart!), but if you’ve come this far you know that nothing we do is on a whim, the Academy has your best interests at heart and we want you to be the best sissy you can be, so what do I mean?

Many of you will know that women frequently struggle to have orgasms during intercourse. A few women struggle to have them under any circumstances but the majority are able to release from their own stimulation using toys, vibrators, suction devices etc.

Compared to this, men can achieve orgasms almost embarrassingly easily. So much so that oftentimes they will release before they want too because they lose control or the selfish part of their brain takes over for a little while and decides that as long as he gets his, then nothing else really matters.

As a sissy, you’ll fall into the male part of this equation and this is one of the reasons why denial and chastity are both very good for you. Denial is a conscious choice on your part that you’re not going to give in to your male urges and chastity is a physical sign that you’ve accepted the need to have more control over your releases and work to decrease the number you have.

The next step

So if denial and chastity are so wonderful (and they are), why do you need to go further? Well, your response when I told you what you had to do is part of it, it sounds ridiculous doesn’t it? Giving up on releases? But denial and chastity are halfway houses towards the real end goal. With them, you’ve made a choice and it’s one you can wake up tomorrow and make a different choice with.

If you decide you want to fully embrace your feminine sexuality, then you need to understand and accept that you can have a complete and fulfilling sexual experience without a release at the end of it, after all, that is what women do!

But…

I know, I know! If you’ve made it this far in the course, you’re a clever girl and you’ve spotted the loophole in my argument, most women are able to achieve orgasms so why does it look like I’m saying you should give up on them completely?

I admit I wanted to grab your attention and shock you a little, so I will be clearer now:

I want you to give up on your expectation that every sexual encounter (with yourself or with others) has to end in one way

Think of it like you’re going out for a fabulous meal at a top-class restaurant. The only flaw are the deserts, they have a rotating selection of 5 deserts on any given day from 30 possibilities and you only like 3 of them. Are you going to turn down the meal because the deserts that day might not be what you like? Or pout through your meal because you’re not getting ice cream at the end of it? No, you’ll enjoy the wonderful food and appreciate it without the desert!

Application

In the upcoming conditioning, where the release option isn’t specified it’s left to you. The expectation is that you won’t have a release unless you’re explicitly allowed one but you should be in touch with your body to a degree where some leeway is ok.

This is a big hurdle to clear but with your work with denial and chastity, the part of your brain that screams at you to spill your sissy squirties as soon as possible should be a lot quieter then it was when you started, allowing you to hear your body and feel it’s response to what you’re doing.

Intensely focus on that response and use it to drown out the remnants of your old, flawed ways of thinking. The benefits are tremendous, you will achieve a level of sexual satisfaction and sissification that most people can’t imagine even exists (people may start to ask what you’re doing to your skin because you seem to be glowing!) and freeing your orgasms from having to be the main course to an optional dessert will let you experience them in a completely new way.

Good luck with this sweetheart, I believe in you!

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