Finalization 13 - Level 3

The top of the triangle

So finally we reach the summit with Level 3. If you’re here then very well done, I know just how hard it can be and how much work it takes to reach a point like this and you should be proud.

No one arrives at this point in error, it takes commitment and knowing who you are and what you want, so yay you!

To refresh our minds:

Level 3 - All

This is the level where it’s pretty much just your life and lifestyle now. You will mostly be in your sissy or femme mode although you may sometimes present as “male” for ease or convenience in certain circumstances.

Your work may well revolve around it too although it’s more common that it will be the sole exception that doesn’t. Your love life, sex life, romantic life, dating and relationships will all be as a sissy or a sub and sissies at this level usually have a wide range of active kinks that they enthusiastically pursue (because once you open the door and walk through it, it frees you up to keep going further and further) and you’ve almost certainly “come out” as one thing or another to the important people in your life.

While it’s unlikely you’ll be out about everything to everyone, it’s not out of shame or fear or embarrassment but only because keeping some things private gives them an extra frisson of excitement,

Cliché though it may be, your wardrobe just will not stop growing and if someone saw the place you live with no other context, they would unquestioningly assume it was for a girl.

Whereas in earlier levels you might be said to “crossdress”, now the meaning of that term has flipped and it’s your male clothes that are the ones that are crossed for you now.

As with Levels 1 and 2, there’s no one ideal model representing it. You’re comfortable been out and may be en femme 24/7 but it’s entirely possible that you spend a lot of your time “male” for ease or convenience.

Once you pass the first few steps and the initial euphoria here, you’re likely to start to get overwhelmed by just how much there is that you can do. You can feel like you’re drowning just in your clothing choices and when you mix in other kinks or starting to play with body modifications or cosmetic surgery it’s like the world has just opened before you like a flower unfurling.

And that’s because that’s exactly what’s happening and you’re the flower that’s starting to blossom.

First steps

“Comfort” is the key word here. Stepping into Level 3 doesn’t come quickly or easily and the first steps are the most fraught ones. Even though you’ve come so far, this is the point where some sissies decide that Level 2 is the place for them and sometimes, there’ll be a period of going back and forth between them but in most cases it ends with the decision to hold to your original course.

This is also where involving others really pays off, doing everything on your own is perfectly possible but it makes it all that much harder.

Having someone alongside you that you can talk to about it, go out in public with or just be around so you can normalise how you’re feeling is something it’s hard to overstate the value of.

You will make plenty of new friends once you’re firmly on this path but again, it’s a lot easier to take the first steps when you have others on your side already.

What you need to do when you’re getting started is to focus and prioritise. As I said at the start, it can feel like all of the doors are opening to you all at once but that doesn’t mean that you need to try them all straight away.

Pick some specific things you want to do, e.g. be en femme outside every day, go to a salon to get your nails done, meet someone for a coffee and focus on those things to the exclusion of everything else. Then when you succeed, you can carry on with doing them the next week but add a few more new things...and then more the next...and more...and more...and more.

In a couple of months you’ll be well past the awkwardness of the initial phase and your feet will be planted on the ground facing firmly forward.

Staying the course

Once you’ve found your feet with some of the simpler and more straightforward items on your list, that’s when you can start working on the less mundane side of things.

So once going out en femme is the norm for you, you can really start to push it further by dressing more provocatively, a little more sexy and slutty and maybe showing some more skin. Because you’re comfortable with yourself, you’re comfortable showing (or maybe displaying would be a better choice of word) yourself and being seen. You’re hot, you know it and you want others to see it!

This is where the little voice in your head might pipe up but you dressing sexily is no more “wrong” than anyone else dressing the same way, sometimes you do it for yourself, because it’s nice to look hot, sometimes you do it for others and sometimes it’s a little of both.

You’ll be shocked at how quickly you will adapt to what seemed like a huge deal not so long ago.

A sissy is naturally something that transgresses certain boundaries but as more and more doors open for you, you’ll start to see how a lot of the rules you’ve always followed without thinking about them were only ever in your head. Someone once said that walls aren’t there to keep you out, they’re there to see how badly you want something and when you’re on Level 3 you’ve shown how much you want it and now you can reap the rewards.

In exactly the same way that a woman who has stepped up, taken control of her sexuality and is openly and expressively sexual has power so does anyone who does the same thing and isn’t a cishet male.

You’ve scaled the mountain and made the summit, so all you have left is to enjoy the view.

Homework

A nice, easy homework for you today girls, just relax and watch some sissy hypno. 15-30 minutes a day until your next letter is fine.

As you watch, try and see how you’re responding to it and if it’s something that has changed at all during your time at the Academy.

Some people find hypno videos become less appealing as they actually sissify themselves in real life but sometimes, you’ll find that they become startlingly effective and now work on you at a much deeper level.

But don’t forget to enjoy them too!

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