Academy 8 - Dollification 11 - Finding your true name
A quick chat
Ok girls, now we’re all sitting here and ready for today’s lesson, we need to have a little talk. I know how this topic will make some of you feel, but just take some deep breaths and remember don’t panic, you’re perfectly safe.
This letter starts the part of the course we refer to as “Sissy Dating”. I know, I know, for some of you, just reading that makes the bottom drop out of your tummies but like I said, just take a few deep breaths and sit with it for a little while. We’re just girls talking to each other, there’s nothing scary here.
Reading this letter won’t have you selling yourself at the nearest street corner, it won’t have you dropping to your knees in front of every man you see grabbing at the zipper on his trousers and it doesn’t mean you’re going to be a drooling brainless slut (and yes, I know some of you will be disappointed by this!).
As we’ve said over and over, we want you to lead full and rewarding lives with this side of you integrated into it to whatever extent you want it to be. We appreciate that not all of you will want to or may not (currently) be able to follow through on it and take it in this direction but we would be remiss and fall short of our goals if we didn’t cover it, so here we are!
As we’re in the second half of the course, more of the lessons will be covering these kinds of areas but always keep in mind that (even if we could) we’re not here to force you to do anything that you don’t want to and these can always be treated as pure information if you prefer.
Hopefully, my little ramble has reassured you, but if your heart is still racing a little, I can also tell you that this module won’t be pushing you anywhere near your comfort zone, all we’re going to be doing is laying some groundwork.
To Begin
Most of you will already have names for this side of yourself (not least because we recommend doing this at the start of the course!), so why should you consider another? Firstly, you’ve been studying for quite some time now and 🤞you’ve learned and grown as a sissy and as a person. This is a good opportunity for you to explore a little and see if your original choice is still the right one for you.
Secondly, part of dating involves interacting with others (deep breaths girls) so if you decided on “Tina Luvcox” after giggling for rather too long or even if your usernames on social media are Sissy_Tina or similar, then it’s a good idea to switch to just a name.
Loving penis’s is wonderful, but leading with it sends a particular message and will limit your potential audience!
A rose by any other name…
So let’s begin the lesson. All of you have names, some of you have multiple ones, a lot of you will have names just for your sissy side and some have names that are just used for this course.
What we’re going to do today is look at finding you a name that maybe, possibly one day you will share with others a little more publicly. The Academy recommends you set up a specific e-mail account for your training because we want you to be able to keep things separate so you can feel safe and comfortable exploring yourself and finding a name that you are happy to share publicly will do the same thing. It will let you take full advantage of situations and opportunities that may present themselves to you without having to worry about the impact they may have on all the other parts of you.
This kind of seperate, semi-anonymous exploration is a huge benefit. The ability to make mistakes and then learn from them is incredibly valuable, but if you’re always looking over your shoulder and are worried about how your actions might appear to others then taking a chance is a lot harder and this is especially true as what you want to do becomes less and less mainstream (for want of a better word).
This is something that will become much more important next module, so you’ve got plenty of time to get comfortable with the idea.
Picking
There are a few ways to pick a new name for yourself. It can be a feminization of your base name (e.g. Simon can become Simone, Charles becomes Charlotte), you can name yourself after someone you admire or who has inspired you or it can simply be one that you like and just appeals to you with no deeper reason.
Your base name wasn’t one that you picked but it has accumulated meaning as your life has progressed and events have affected you. Picking a new name for yourself gives you a head start on this because you are choosing one that already has some meaning to you and it’s also strongly attuned to this part of yourself.
This website and this one will give you some tools to play with. Maybe you want a timeless name like Sarah or something a little stranger (Winter, Summer and Autumn are all acceptable female names, Spring and Fall seemingly less so). Maybe you want something in between the two extremes or something that is currently en vogue?
Does a celebrity appeal to you? An old teacher you remember fondly? No one but you will ever have to know the why but everytime someone refers to you by it, you should feel a little thrill as you remember the reason and the work you’ve put in to reach this point.
Homework
You’ve got a few days until we pick up this thread again. You should have a folder in your Academy Drive titled “The Real Me” and if you don’t then step one is to create it!
When you’re ready to start working, you should be dressed as girly as you can be and then insert your smallest plug. Start this video playing and set it to loop so when it ends it will start again. Have the volume fairly low, you don’t want your attention and focus to be on the words, you just want something nice and supportive in the background as you’re working.
As you’re doing your homework, I want you to squirm around like an excited girl. No other stimulation is allowed, you’re not doing this to release, it’s all to get you in the right frame of mind for the task.
Create a new document in your folder called “Names” and in it, you need to make a list of 50 forenames that appeal to you. At least 5 should be feminine versions of your base name and try and make the others a mix of names of people who inspire you and names that you just find appealing.
You’re making a long list so you have plenty of room to play around and explore ideas. You can add plenty of weird and even extremely weird names that you like the sound of at the moment without having to worry that you’ll be stuck with something that you eventually decide you don’t like enough to keep.
As you have some time, there’s no need to rush, so think about setting aside a little time every day to sit down with a drink, set the video playing and take a few minutes to think about it and build your list (and wiggle around on your plug of course 😉).
You can include names you already use and these won’t count towards your 50. The goal here isn’t to force you to change things but to consider where you are now and think about whether the choices you originally made are still a good reflection of you.
Now go and start dreaming and get working!
