Academy 5 - Identity 8 - A focus on lips - New
Hi there sweetheart!
Today’s lesson is focussed on my favorite area, the lips! As I mentioned last time, my earliest memories are sitting on my mother’s bed and watching her apply her makeup for the day. One day when I was 9 or 10, I asked her why only girls wore makeup because it looked like so much fun to put it on and wear it. She turned around and gave me an answer I can’t remember, then she started tickling me and I squirmed out of her grasp and ran away. She raced after me and held me down while she planted kisses all over my face and I couldn’t stop laughing.
After she’d finished, I caught a glimpse of myself covered in lipstick kisses and didn’t think any more of it at the time. There was nothing sexual about it, but to this day I love kissing more than almost any other sexual activity.
My partner is well aware of this and likes to catch me off guard, spin me round and lock lips. Something about the closeness, her perfume and the feel of both of our heavily made-up lips rubbing against each other makes me incredibly light headed and I just swoon into her. She’ll whisper ‘such a sissy’ into my ear when she starts to pull away as I try and remember what I was doing! I’m so lucky!
As the above picture shows, lips can be an incredibly striking feature on your face. People’s eyes are naturally drawn to them when you talk and having them painted fire engine red sends a very definite message!
Lip care
I know Head Trainer Frida has you using lip balm and you’ve been doing it for long enough by now that your lips should feel naked without it.
This also has the benefit of keeping your lips smooth and protected from the environment.
What I want to do now is take a little bit of time to go over some other lip care products, even if you use your lip balm religiously (and no, I don’t mean every Sunday) sometimes you will need a little extra help to keep your lips smooth and kissable.
Most lip care items beyond balm are things that should be used overnight. Sometimes your balm isn’t enough and your lips will become chapped no matter how much you apply. If this happens, you can buy ultra intensive moisturising balm. Apply it before you go to bed and in the morning you’ll be amazed at how much better your lips are.
Wearing it overnight means that it doesn’t have to protect your lips from the elements and because you’re asleep you won’t lick it off. I have a couple of different types that I like to use at least once a week. Even if my lips aren’t chapped I want to keep them supersmooth!
The other type of product you can use is a scrub. These act to exfoliate your lips and usually use sugar. Apply the scrub to your lips, massage it in, leave it for a couple of minutes and then remove. Hey presto, smooth lips! Now apply some balm to keep them that way
You can make your own, I have a kiwi flavoured one that I like, but the smell will make me lick it off if I don’t pay attention.
Lipstick
The other benefit of keeping your lips smooth is that your lipstick will feel so much sleeker and smoother and it will look better. If you have spots of dead skin on your lips, lipstick will highlight them and ruin the effect you're going for.
As with my earlier class on nail polish, this is a beginners course so we won’t be going into too much depth. It’s about the fun of applying it for the first time and enjoying the sensations.
You may or may not exfoliate before you apply, I understand that it might be more hassle than you want. I would recommend that you apply lip balm, leave it for a few minutes and then wipe it off. This will help the lipstick go on evenly but if you don’t remove it, the lipstick will have trouble sticking.
Next get your lipstick and rotate it so the tip is showing. Start from the middle of your top lip and brush it outward, yes, you need to be looking in a mirror to do this, make sure you don’t miss anywhere. Once you’ve done one side, repeat on the other and then on the bottom lip.
When you’re done repeat and add a second coat. If you’ve missed anywhere do the thing you’ve seen women do and have been dying to copy where you put your lips together and rub them to spread the color.
And that’s it, look at your lips in the mirror, they’re ready for...well anything!
Removal is equally simple, use your makeup remover and a cotton wool ball and wipe it off.
The one universal tip I can give for lipstick application is always use a mirror. I’ve been applying it for years and every time I try and do it without a mirror I always miss some part of my lips. No matter how good you think you are or how experienced, if you’re doing your own lips, use a mirror!
Homework
Lipstick should be added to the list of things you do whenever you’re enjoying some sissy time. It’s quick to apply and remove and you’ll love the feel of it on your lips.
This is especially true whenever you’re practicing your oral skills. No matter where, no excuses, if you’re sucking something your lips have to be painted. Once you’ve done this a few times you won’t ever forget again. When you see you’ve left rings around a dildo you’ll want to see them everytime.
You also need to start buying fashion and beauty magazines such as Cosmo or Glamour. One new magazine every other month should be ok to get you started. Ideally, you will buy it from a shop, but an online copy that you buy will be fine as well. You should always have one on hand and read a few pages every night before you go to bed. Pay special attention to any articles on makeup!
Ok girls, that is it from me in this module, I’m sure our paths will cross in future, so keep practicing!
If you have the Sissy Training Book then now it's time to open the Week of Oral Training and complete all tasks. You have 7 days and every task must be completed. No skipping, no excuses. Just lips, focus and devotion!