Mindset Letter 7 - Dildofication

Acquire your first dildo

If you started with anal intro you should already have a small dildo and you are probably fine for now. The cheap alternative here is to get a sausage that is about the right size (diameter is what matters most) and place a condom over it. The more realistic the dildo the better the effect of your new shower conditioning will be, but the choice is up to you and your budget.

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Now you should go get a realistic, soft dildo. Go for a medium-sized one, similar to an average-sized penis, and with a soft easily bendable material. Try to find one that has as little smell or taste as possible, only silicone really is, more or less, guaranteed to be taste-free, but my recommendation is that you check reviews. Plastics and jelly materials are way better today then they were only a few years ago so try to not look too much at old sources or comments, best is if you can contact the seller and ask them. You can always say you are a bit extra sensitive and therefore, would like to know if a few products have a smell. Taste and smell is important since you want to be able to take it orally.

Something like this:

Circumference: 5 inches, 12cm

Diameter: 1.5 inches, 4 cm

Insertable Length: 5.5 inches, 16 cm

Length: 7 inches, 17.5 cm

Material: Soft silicone or jelly

Make sure the “foot” or the “balls” are big and have a suction cup. Having it easily stick to a wall in the shower or a plastic chair is going to be very useful for training hands-free action.

If you are lacking money, then start saving girl! Go back to you budget, plan your life more <3 And then go and find what you would love to buy for your first dildo, and what store you would like to buy from, do everything you can up to the point of purchase.

A dildo is quite important for your growth, but of course you can continue without one. Though it is something special when you everyday start to train with what will soon become your best friend. It will feel really good and put you on the right track plus increase your mood - what is not that worth? ;)

An updated bathroom routine that requires a dildo or similar phallic object will come soon.

Warmly,

Trainer Frida