Finalization 8 - A General Theory of Sissification
It’s so bizarre…
Ok girls, I know a lot of you reading this are nervous. You know that the course is almost over and you’re worried about how you’ll fare outside of the warm, comforting, blanket-like structure of the Academy.
As we’ve said a few times, we’ll still be in touch and you have a few options (some of which you won’t be aware of yet) for continuing as a student but at the moment, you’re like a baby bird that we’re slowly but consistently nudging towards the edge of the nest.
No matter how many times we reassure you, tell you “you’ve got this” and make you remember all of the other times you’ve been nervous in a similar manner and how well they all turned out plus the number of lessons you’ve had that focused on finding what you want and then getting it, you’re still going to be relying on yourself a little more than you have been (even though this is an illusion, who signed up for the Academy? Given how that decision turned out, why are you doubting yourself now?).
With this all been said, let’s take a few steps back and look at the big picture, 16 billion years or so ago, fluctuations in the quantum vacuum... ok, maybe not quite that far back and not quite that big of a picture. In this lesson and the next few I want to talk to you about sissification, break it down and start to codify it a little.
This isn’t a purely theoretical or categorical issue though, in the same way that breaking down the sport of “running” into distinct events (e.g. 100m, Marathon, Ultra Marathon etc) and this can help someone to find “their” event, breaking the edifice of sissification into categories can help it’s practitioners find their place and help if they want to change it.
So, what is a sissy?
It might seem odd that we’ve left it to the final module to raise this question but that’s because it’s one that isn’t easily answered, so much so that I’m not even going to do so here either!
Once you start setting definitional boundaries, suddenly things will start to appear outside of them and run counter to your thoughts and in the end, the clear cut meaning you thought you had starts to look less and less accurate.
As an example, sissies are submissive. This is obvious, everyone knows it! But...does this mean submissive 24/7, submissive when they present as sissies, sexually submissive or something else? And this leaves aside the small number of Alpha Sissies, sissies who are always or (as we’ve found it’s probably better to say) mostly dominant. Our obvious statement has suddenly become a little muddier and we need to amend it in such a fashion that it becomes unwieldy or needs a lot of caveats.
The two ways to handle this are to avoid clear cut definitions, so most sissies are sexually submissive or, what I usually find to be a better method for common or “accepted” words and phrases, to avoid defining them.
So what is a sissy? You tell me! We all know what the word means to ourselves and for now, that’s enough. No one is going to break down your door and demand you prove yourself (at least no one will do this if you’re not an on campus student!).
This also has the benefit of not being exclusionary, if someone is asking “am I a sissy?”, then the answer can either be you are if you think you are or at the end of the day, does it matter? If you like doing the commonly accepted things sissies do but the word turns you off, then don’t worry and likewise, if there are some aspects of what people commonly mean when they refer to sissification or sissies that don’t work for you, it doesn’t make you any less of one.
As a final benefit, this also strips girls of excuses, we have had a few e-mails along the lines of, “I really wanted to get dressed up, flirt online and suck a guy off, but I’m still unsure if I’m actually a sissy or not!” and the answer is always, so what? If you’re not a sissy, you wouldn’t want to do all of these things any less than you do now so get to work!
A note on hierarchies
Ok, so when we get into it you’ll find that I’ve split things into three broad categories. When you’re reading about them, keep in mind the example I gave above about running. Even when I refer to them as Levels 1, 2 and 3 this isn’t a hierarchy where one level is better than another..
The Marathon isn’t a “better” race than the 100m because it’s longer and similarly the 100m isn’t above the Marathon because it’s more popular. Each of these things is valid in and of themselves and each event serves a purpose and fills a need the others don’t.
If you’re someone who is firmly in the first level of sissification, it doesn’t make you any less than someone who is at level 3. The aim with making these categories is to help you think about things in a slightly more systematic way and to hopefully make it easier to plan and make decisions, it’s not a ranking system for you to use to show your superiority or assert your dominance.
This might come as a shock to the more competitive of you but you can’t “win” sissification, no matter how many cocks you suck (although don’t take that as a reason to stop). Just because your makeup is flawless doesn’t mean you’re better than the next sissy who just has a slash of lipstick on.
The end goal for all of this is for you to be living your best, happiest, most authentic life with your sissy side playing as much of a part in that as feels right for you.
The categories
As I mentioned, I’ve broken things down into 3 categories:
Level 1 - Self
Level 2 - Others
Level 3 - All
We’re going to be diving into these in the upcoming letters, so for now, I’m only going to give you an overview of each level.
Level 1 - Self
As you can probably guess from the title, this level is the most masturbatory one of them. Your sissification is entirely confined to yourself.
This can cover a lot of ground (because sissification is a very broad subject, so limiting ourselves to three categories will always mean they are very broad), at one end it can be entirely computer and masturbation based, you just love getting off to sissy hypno and nothing more.
At the other end, it could mean that when you’re alone you always present as femme, e.g. you live alone and when you get home, you put on a dress, some makeup and a comfy pair of heels and go about your private life from there.
Your online habits also reflect this. You may have female online accounts, but you don’t share anything of yourself beyond text...and again, as you read this girls remember, no judging and no shaming!
If you want to go further, we want to help you but if you are where you want to be then that’s just perfect.
Level 2 - Others
Moving on, this level is where your sissification starts to involve other people.
Again, this covers a range of possibilities. Sharing pictures or videos of yourself online just about fits in here. Hooking up while en femme, dressing in public or having girly play dates (sexual or not) with sissy friends definitely do.
As well as involving others, your sissification will almost certainly take up more of your time. When you’re around people you will be acutely aware of your appearance and shortcomings (real or imagined (and they are mostly imagined girls!)), so you’ll be working on your makeup and your hair and your clothes a lot.
Now that it’s not just you, your sissification will also start to normalise because you’re well past any point where purging could be an issue and you don’t have to sit there wondering what would happen if someone found out or knew what you got up to, someone has and it turned out pretty well!
Level 3 - All
This is the level where your sissification is pretty much just your life and lifestyle now. You will mostly be in your sissy or femme mode although you may sometimes present as “male” for ease or convenience in specific circumstances.
Your work may well revolve around it too although it’s more common that it will be the sole part of your life that doesn’t. Your love life, sex life, romantic life, dating and relationships will all be as a sissy or a sub and sissies at this level usually have a wide range of active kinks that they enthusiastically pursue (because once you open the door and walk through it, it liberates you to keep going further and further) and you’ve almost certainly “come out” as one thing or another to the important people in your life.
While it’s unlikely you’ll be out about everything to everyone, it’s not out of shame or fear or embarrassment but only because keeping some things private gives them an extra frisson of excitement.
Cliché though it may be, your wardrobe just will not stop growing and your living spaces reflect who you are.
Whereas in earlier levels you might be said to “cross-dress”, now the meaning of that term has flipped and it’s your male clothes that are the ones that are crossed for you now.
Hopefully you recognise at least some of yourself in these descriptions. As I said earlier, in the next few letters we’re going to be diving into these more so you can spend a little time thinking whereabouts you fit but remember, these lines are drawn for convenience only, if you are in between or all over them, that’s fine too!
Homework
Ok girls, your homework is all about Yoga. You need to do one Yoga session then follow it with one Yoga porn scene. 15 minutes of each is fine.
The first day should be Yoga then porn, reverse the order on day two and then carry on like this until you receive the next letter.
Watch the porn and play with your nipple as you do.
Speak to you soon. x
