Academy 5 - Identity 7 - Focusing on your pleasure
Hey slut, let’s get to work!
Earlier in this module I gave you some instructions on how to release in a more feminine manner. In this letter we want to work on the rest of your technique.
Don’t think this is just so you can perfect your rubbing technique. Everything we’re teaching you about pleasure at the Academy isn’t even really meant for your benefit at all, that’s just a lucky (for you) spin off!
If you think about it, the most common sexual partner for a man, is a man and similarly, the most common partner for a woman is a woman. This is true because the most common form of sex is masturbation, so the most common partner for anyone is themselves!
By now, you’ve hopefully started to realise that women and men touch themselves differently and enjoy different things. So by learning to pleasure yourself as a woman, you’re making yourself better for and more appealing to any potential future partners.
Learning the intricacies of how oral and anal work has no downside, you’re enjoying yourself and you’re improving your future sex life. If you’re lucky enough that an opportunity arises for you to have a threesome or any sexual situation out of the ordinary, you’ll have much more confidence in your ability to handle things.
It also works on your sissification, once you start to explore and realise that the simple brute black and white of male stimulation may be the default but it’s not the only option, you’ll begin to experience the beginnings of powerful feelings and sensations that you never dreamt your body was capable of and then you’ll naturally want (and need!) to go deeper.
The Academy has heard from a lot of students who couldn’t believe how pleasurable switching to rubbing is compared to their regular stroking. We even get students asking if they can completely switch and rub in the first module conditioning when they should be stroking (the answer is always no!).
Homework
You probably can’t contain yourself any more so let’s get to it.
You have seven days until your next letter. Each day you should be as femme as you can be so underwear, makeup, breasts, scent etc
For the first three days, you need to spend an hour each day watching videos on your Pornhub account. They should be videos where a woman is pleasuring herself with a vibrator.
Make sure it’s a similar model to the one you have, if she’s got a Hitachi that plugs into the mains, it’s a much different experience to a battery powered finger vibrator.
As you watch, copy her. Not just how she stimulates herself but how she moves and how she expresses herself. You’re free to add in girly expressions from my earlier letter as well.
You’re allowed to release every day for this but it has to be after at least an hour of training. If a video is reaching an ending and it’s not time for you, then watch how she reacts and move on.
If you’re getting too close to a release, then pause the video and stop what you’re doing. Have a glass of water to hand and take a few slow sips and a few deep breaths to calm down a little. You’ve already been experimenting with denial and backing off a little before getting back to work is an effective technique to make your peaks higher.
Ideally, your release should tie in with the release on a video, but if it doesn’t happen, you already know how to release like a girl so make sure you do it correctly.
Days 4-6 follow the same format but this time the videos should be of women masturbating by hand. They can be solo videos or ones where a group of women masturbate each other, but it should be an all female group.
Again, follow along copying what you’re seeing. This can be a harder task than using a vibrator, rubbing can be a little trickier, but stick with it! You should already be a little aroused knowing what you’re going to do and when you start acting girly, it should turn you on even more.
You can do this tucked or untucked and I would recommend you try both ways on different days. This expands your options and your experiences and rubbing whilst you’re tucked is an experience every sissy should become proficient in.
Day 7 is very special and you can consider it your exam for this module.
To start with you need to prepare, have a shower and get dressed and made up. Make sure you have lube and a glass of water nearby then go to your Pornhub recommended page. You’re going to start at the first video and then just work your way through them. If a video is long, you can skip through it to get to the action, but that’s only if it’s 40 minutes plus!
You will then pick one finger, that finger is your sole means of stimulating yourself today. You will then use it to caress your clit in a slow circular motion. You can be tucked and reach around the back, do it through your panties or have your panties so they hold your clit relatively firmly against you body.
Then just continue, you can stop and start but you can’t vary the pace or the method of stimulation, just keep doing slow, circular motions on your clit. Round and round and round and round. You will be tempted to go faster, you will be tempted to rub and you will be tempted to grab your clit and stroke it raw. Ignore these and keep going, the first time you start to come close is when you’ll get an idea of what your release will feel like.
Now this is an exam and it is one you can fail. You should spend at least an hour on this and can take as long as you like, but if you’re unable to release using this method then don’t feel too bad, just start again another day.
Your mentality will be a huge help with this. The more you’ve internalised acting like a female and exploring yourself, the easier it will be to stick with it.
Once you’re able to release using this method, you’ve taken a massive step forward.
