Academy 5 - Identity 5 - Release like a girl
Hey there girlie!
Today we’re going to continue our exploration of your sissy identity by sharing some tips on how you can experience pleasure in a much more feminine and girly fashion.
I’m sure everyone reading this has had plenty of experience of masculine orgasms. Grunting, heavy breathing and everything focused at just one point. The intensity can change but the orgasms are very similar. Compare this to feminine orgasms, they can be soft and gentle or so explosive that the recipient isn’t able to walk until she collects herself. They can be entirely focused in one area or be spread across the entirety of her body.
I’m not going to promise that you’ll be having mind-blowing multiple orgasms by the end of this letter but if you apply what I’m going to tell you, you should be able to see some results quickly and you should be able to start experiencing something you’ve never felt before.
The groundwork for this was laid in the first module. You should be practiced with tucking and rubbing and I hope that ‘clit’ is what springs to mind when you think of what you have down there.
Watch this video, keep the sound down and pay attention to everything she does that doesn’t involve her crotch. Go back and watch the video from Day 8 of the conditioning in the first module (open your sissy training book > Foundations Daily > Day 08) (I’m sure you all remember it!), again, sound down and watch everything but the crotch.
👉 I hope you’re enjoying this!
Tips
This letter is focused on the mental side of things. You can rub yourself until you’re raw but if you’re still grunting away and racing to get to an orgasm, then you’re still approaching things from a much too masculine point of view.
From now on, whenever you’re pleasuring yourself, you should:
be wearing at least one item of female clothing (full lingerie is better) and you should always aim to be wearing your breasts
have something in your pussy, unless your focus is penetrating yourself a plug is fine. You should never release unless your pussy is full, this is very important
either be wearing your feminine perfume/deodorant or spray it in the room where you are
assume a feminine position when you masturbate (watch female masturbation videos for examples)
The point of each of these should be obvious. If you look down at yourself and see breasts or lingerie then you’ll think female and your brain will start to reorder itself and if you adopt a position you’ve seen a woman in when she was masturbating, you’ll start to identify with her so much more.
If you have a VR headset, you can take this further by watching female POV porn on it. This is highly recommended and you won’t believe how effective it can be.
If you feel your pussy is full, you’ll start to link pleasure with penetration and by spraying perfume on yourself you’ll begin to associate the smell with pleasure and eventually, just spritzing yourself will get you in the mood.
How to act
The first section covers setting the stage. Once you’re working on yourself, you need to start behaving in a more feminine manner.
When you feel a wave of pleasure ripple through you, pout, round your lips and form an O with your mouth and make the sound ‘oooooh’. This is super effective.
Everytime you’re watching porn and you see any cock for the first time, make an O and let out an ‘ooooh’.
When you’re getting close don’t start grunting, bite your lip (pay more attention to female masturbation videos if you’re not sure how) and when you can’t contain yourself anymore you can start panting. Slowly at first and then faster as you get closer. I said it above, but it goes double here, this is an incredibly effective technique and can be mixed in with your ‘ooohs’ to help control your arousal. Working yourself up and panting and then easing off and releasing a long ‘ooooooooh’ will draw things out and make your ultimate release much more powerful.
You should say girly things, this should be done when you’re feeling very aroused, ‘you make me so wet’ or ‘give it to me’ (this goes double if you’re penetrating yourself). Don’t just repeat them in a flat monotone like you’re ticking a box, someone is there and you have to let them know this. You’ll know this is working when you find yourself uncontrollably screaming ‘fuck me’ over and over again as you explode into an orgasm so powerful you see stars!
Take your time to get to a release. Use what I’ve said above to control your arousal, work yourself up and then pull back a little and repeat this cycle a few times. Every time you get aroused, the peak will be higher and higher and eventually, you’ll start to lose control. Then the next time you’re pleasuring yourself, you’ll be able to get back to where you were and push yourself even higher.
Homework
No touching yourself for a week.
I’m kidding of course! Practice, practice, practice. You have your Pornhub account giving you a continuous stream of videos to work through and you have a number of tips and techniques to apply.
As with anything new, they can feel awkward or maybe even wrong to begin with but when you start to experience the pleasure they bring, you’ll wonder why you’ve been doing things wrong for so long!
Now go and have some fun! Don’t forget about the extra training mentioned in the e-mail that accompanied this lecture.
👉 7 days of anal training, ready for you in the Sissy Training Book. That begins now.
And once we complete module 5?
You'll move directly into 7 days of oral training - also waiting for you in the Sissy Training Book.
One hole at a time, sweetheart. Let the transformation continue.
