Academy 10 - Possibilities 2 - An Introduction to Transitioning

An Introduction to Transitioning

Hey there you beautiful wonderful amazing sweetie!

Today we are doing a VERY important lecture. So important that it might change your life forever.

Especially if you are one of those that have not gotten to this step yet...

Because this lesson and most of this module might be a bit next level for you, I want to cover some common misunderstandings and doubts that you may or may not carry without actually knowing about it.

Note to those of you who are already educated on this subject

We use terms that are not fully nuanced on purpose, in order to make the text easier to read and hopefully make it more approachable for those that are not as educated yet.

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Some things to take with you before you start this module...

We are going to talk about the subject of what it would actually mean and be like to change your life around so that your life as a girl for the rest of your life.

You probably know this is often referred to as transitioning.

It is easy to dismiss this as something “not for me” but stay with me and hear me out.

For some of you this will just be a fantasy, for some it will remain a distant dream and some of you will realize things about yourself, and what is possible in this world that you may never have thought were possible before.

Regardless of your current thoughts or fears around transitioning I want you to just take a deep breath and see where these explorative lessons take you for now.

You carry a lot of stories in your beautiful mind.

That is not an insult dear, since everyone does.

Even if you will never transition yourself, you might one day encounter someone that does.

Even if you never encounter someone that transitions, you will inevitably hear about it.

These lessons on the possibilities of transitioning in this module will build an empathic foundation for you to understand those that choose to do so.

Just like I think a deeper and nuanced view on sexuality will make you a better person to navigate the world, so do I also think it will for you to get a deeper and nuanced view around transitioning.

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What about sissification in relation to transitioning?

The majority of new students approach the academy not for personal development, but rather as something kinky and sexy.

A sort of next level step from sissification videos and force-feminization fantasies.

I like that.

I think everyone deserves to explore their sexuality and their fantasies.

Like I tend to mention...

Fantasy is not reality and most people are usually really good at telling the difference.

So dive head first into fantasies, but be more careful when you consider making them real.

Yet exploring a force-feminization fantasy with “Daddy”, a hot guy, your girlfriend or with a professional dominatrix is not the same “real” as transitioning for the rest of your life.

Don’t worry if you cannot stop thinking about that idea, we will get you there xD

We are getting real now.

What if this module moves you to take those steps?

How do you feel at the thought of that?

Excited? Fearful? Unsure? A mixture?

Right now we are not discussing if it is right for you.

We are looking at why sissification can despite it’s often bad press might actually be a quite natural step for those whom transitioning would be the right thing for.

We will also look at why some that transition do not first start with sissification.

Finally you will get some definitions on the topic and there will be an exam on those.

Sissification and sexuality

Imagine that in someone for whom transitioning is the correct way of life, there is something fundamental in their brain that makes living as a girl just feel right.

Our brains are flexible and beyond complex wonders of this world.

Yet they also come with certain structures that are more solid. One example of this is sexuality.

Consider how hard it would be for the ordinary straight man to just go full-gay.

Sexuality is far from binary, and so there will be many that have a little bit of both already, but that lives in a culture that shames or excludes those that show certain preferences.

In the Roman Empire it is said that wealthier and powerful people, men in particular, had no qualms about fucking their male slaves. That was their power-culture and it was normal.

The difference between someone where the masculine feels right or not, is not whether they can stand the thought of it, or if they are able to do the act, or even if they would enjoy the act!

It is if they get that EXTRA spark in relation to the masculine or not.

That tingling sensation that just feels right; what we call attraction.

There is something fundamental in the brain that triggers in relation to certain things, sexual expressions of the masculine or feminine are two examples.

Some people do not get that spark for either. We often refer to that as being asexual.

Hear that term before?

Yet, surprise surprise, that does not mean asexual people can not have sexual fantasies, highly desire a romantic relationship, or enjoy sexual stimulation.

As I understand it from my limited point-of-view, they just do not have that extra spark of attraction in relation to either the typically feminine or masculine.

Let us dive deeper into feminine and masculine attraction

Men typically have a strong visual attraction response.

If nothing, a look at the offerings of the porn-industry should be a clear indicator of this.

Of course women can also like and enjoy porn, yet typically the interest for that visual penetrative genital focused media is not as strong.

I bet you will find more guys that would be happy to get a photo of a pussy, a pair of naked breasts than there are women that enjoy looking at penis pictures.

I would explain that a factor of this is that female-typical attraction has a stronger basis in social aspects, such as if the person is confident, has high status, or is skilled or talented.

This results in more of a focus on the beauty of the behaviors of people, rather than the visual of people.

How someone is dressed, how they care for their hair or what people they hang out with.

Men also care for qualities like these. Just like women also care for physical attraction.

Listen to interviews where men get questions about how important they think it is what a female they would desire wears, sets her hair or what jewelry she wears, you will quickly realize this is very likely an aspect that women tend to value higher.

Likewise men that send “inappropriate” pictures to women on dating sites seem to come from the position that the physical aspects alone could get them lucky.

Those that feel that extra attraction for both the feminine and the masculine we often refer to as bi-sexual.

Like we said before… How do you draw the line? One kiss? One love? Sex once? A few times? Had a partner?

The answer is: You cannot really.

Instead it is about that feeling and coming to the understanding of what works for you and keep exploring that.

Put a term or it or not, that is up to you.

Regarding terms you need to learn, here are two:

Androphilia - Attraction to the masculine.

Gynephilia - Attraction to the feminine.

Imagine if a male had a typical feminine attraction...

Sexuality is who you are visually and socially attracted to. Who you want to sleep with. Who you find to be hot.

Males have a slight higher focus towards the visuals, and females a slight higher focus on the context around the sexual act.

So a “male” with a feminine attraction stance would like visuals, but also really enjoy deeper sexual exploration that is more story-driven.

Is this not sissification in a nutshell, at least at it’s best?

Here is an even crazier part.

Your hormones play an important role in your sexual thinking.

Above I said “male”. What I really meant was someone with a body that is testosterone dominant, and instead of female, estrogen dominant.

Because most humans have one of these sex-hormones be the more prominent and driving one in their body than the other.  

So what happens when someone who is estrogen dominant, becomes testosterone dominant instead? The tendency is they get a higher sex-drive and get more visually focused!

Believe it or not, the opposite happens the other way around.

There of course are many nuances here, but there are also these patterns that are repeated in people across cultures.

Hence, sissification and the sexualisation of fantasies such as forced feminization, makes a lot of sense for those whom transitioning turns out to be the right thing.

For now, just consider that if someone has a brain that’s mismatched with their dominant sex-hormones then a focus on visuals, combined with more details about the context around might just make a lot of sense.

Examination

Above I marked especially important terms in bold. Study these.

Also questions about the general understanding of this lesson might also come on the exam.

Study well and see you soon.