Academy 8 - Dollification 18 - Moments of femme

Taking it with you

So you’ve found your relaxing, femmy happy place but does it have to be confined to your bath or your living room or your bedroom? Of course not!

All you need is a way to bring these qualities with you into the wider world and to do that you use a concept I like to think of as taking a feminine moment.

Maybe you’re taking a break at work or you’ve gone for a coffee or you’re just sitting somewhere in the sunshine. Take out your phone and find some celebrity gossip to read or look through the Twitter or Insta feed of someone famous (porn stars excluded 😉 I know where your minds go 😛).

How about you go to a beauty blog and read an article or two or maybe you go on YouTube and watch a couple of videos of makeup. If you want more, you can search and find channels of “girl talk” videos that will cover all kinds of topics you’ve probably never considered and give you no end of useful tips that you’ll be able to adapt to your life..

It’s only supposed to be a feminine moment so it shouldn’t take too long, the idea is to bring your femme side a little bit more to the fore in your day to day life and try and tap into what she brings. This way of doing it has the benefit of being completely private. No one has to know the details of what you’re doing, you’re just looking at your phone!

Another way to do it is to girlify the items you use. You’ve already started doing this with your bathroom but taking your bathroom into the outside world isn’t something you should try 😉.

I’m sure most of you drink coffee or tea every day, so why not get a slightly more suitable mug for it? Something cuter or more feminine than usual can serve as a wonderful touchpoint during your day.

It might have an inspirational phrase on it or it might only be a nice feminine colour, you’ll know the meaning behind it so it will become meaningful to you and you’ll get a little boost every time you use it.

You probably know that drinking caffeine close to bed time isn’t a good idea, so maybe you end your night with a nice drink of hot chocolate instead? Especially now you have a mug that is just perfect for it.

And just like that, you now have all of the ingredients for a wonderfully feminine and relaxing night in. A nice long bath, followed by a chick flick and hot chocolate and then to bed!

Homework

Part one of your homework is to put what we’ve been talking about into action and repeat as often as you need too.

This should be something that is low-stress and fun, so don’t be too rigid with it, just let it flow naturally into your life and see where it takes you.

The next letter is the last one in the current module. It’s not a training letter so I’ve been asked to give you your holiday homework here too.

Firstly, practise your makeup. It’s something that benefits so much from repetition and you’re going to need it.

Secondly, for the next module you’ll need a minimum of 3 dildos. You should already have a small one and a medium one, so take the chance to round out your collection with a large one. You have plenty to choose from, it can be long, it can be wide or it can even be both!

You can start getting to know him when he arrives, but don’t get too intimate! You want him to keep some surprises for when you meet him properly.