Academy 8 - Dollification 13 - One name
One name to rule all names…
Ok cutie, I hope you’ve finished your lists because today we are going to be working on it. So if you haven’t, close this letter and get your pert little bottom working (those squats should really be starting to pay off by now!) and then come back when you’re done.
I’m going to assume you have 50 names, 45 would be acceptable but absolute no lower figure. More than 50 is fine but you’ll need to adjust your instructions accordingly so you end up with the right number (1).
Make a copy of your final list before you start working on it so you have a backup that you can start the process again if the answer you end up with doesn’t sit quite right with you. Set aside an hour for this, get everything ready and we’ll begin.
Preparation
Today you’ll be looping this video. Like last time, it's not your focus, it’s for a pleasant, affirming background while you work. You should have your medium sized plug in but no squirming! When your hands aren’t working on your list, you can use them to slowly circle your nipples.
After you complete each step, you can tug and flick your nipples for up to 5 minutes and just let your mind drift. We want you feeling pleasantly femme and girly, not a drooling pleasure slut!
Don’t rush this, take a few minutes on each step.
Step 1
Remove the 15 names you like the least.
Step 2
Remove the 5 names you think are just a little bit too much. Either too over the top (I’m looking at you Cumina!), too sexy or just too complicated for something you want to be called everyday.
Step 3
All this cutting can be tiring, so take a little break then come back and we’ll continue. Remove yourself from your plug and go and get a drink.
Step 4
I hope you got your strength back (at least a little), sit back down on your plug.
Step 5
Now you’re going to remove the 20 names that you like the least.
Step 6
Go to Google (or an equivalent search engine) and search for female names. You need to add another 5 names that haven’t been on your list but you like at least as much as the remaining ones. Think of it as, “if I were forced to take this name for the rest of my life, would I be ok with it?”
Step 7
Make sure you have 10 names left on your list. You can now add two names back that you’ve removed but have started to feel that you may have been a little hasty in getting rid of them. This will bring you to the magic number of 12 names
Each of the remaining names should be ones you’d be happy to be called.
Step 8
Another short break! Remove yourself from your plug, maybe you have a little housework to do? Maybe you need to use the bathroom? Go and let the real world intrude a little.
Step 9
Back on your plug sweetheart!
Step 10
Roll a 12 sided dice (real or on the internet), every time it lands, that name gets kept. Keep rolling it until 6 names have been selected and remove the rest.
Step 11
Now roll a 6 sided dice (again, real or the internet) and that’s it!
But
Your work isn’t over! You have your name and now you need to listen VERY carefully and pay attention to yourself. This might be a bit emotional but the question now becomes, how does it feel to you?
Say it out loud to yourself and listen to your feelings. Google the name and try to find some video or audio where someone is saying it and as they do, imagine they are talking to you.
How does it feel inside you? If it resonates a lot, then this is your new name. If you are a bit torn then you can choose to remove it from the list instead. If you decide to remove it, then roll again. Repeat the same procedure with your new choice and find someone that says it. How does it sound? Do this until you have a name that feels good.
If during this process you have a strong feeling or idea for a name that you can settle on right away, be it on the list or not then you are allowed to. This is about your feelings. When people call you by this name you should feel butterflies in your tummy.
When you’ve made your choice, congratulations! You’ve taken a big step and you have a name now.
Go around and say it to yourself in your head. Imagine people saying it to you in conversation. Imagine someone randomly saying it when you are outside and you naturally turn around and smile towards them. Imagine hearing it in the hubbub of a crowd as you’re rushing to meet your girlfriends.
When you have your name, think about possible nicknames and you can also start writing it down, practice signatures a few times and see how it makes you feel when it’s down on a piece of paper in front of you.
Survivor
Ok cutie, you made it through the first parts of Sissy Dating, I said it wasn’t anything to be afraid of and I hope you agree with me!
One last thing, for the document you created last time go and rename it to “Your new name - Who I am and what I want”, you can keep working on it but now you’ll be able to see that it’s yours!
